Personal Experience

First hand accounts of personal experiences with long distance parenting and opinion pieces.

What Long Distance Parenting Is – and Is Not

May 17, 2013
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parents in the b ackground

Parenting is hard and it's full of tough decisions from birth and even past the time that the kid(s) are adults. The decision to be at a distance from a child is a valid or even necessary option sometimes and is one of the single toughest decisions to make. Long distance parents are not deadbeats…

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Survival Mode and the Relentless Drive for a Better Life

March 26, 2012
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Beyond Consequences, Logic and Control by Heather T Forbes

I recently had the life-altering experience of reading Beyond Consequences, Logic, and Control: A Love-Based Approach to Helping Attachment-Challenged Children With Severe Behaviors. My son, who has a long distance dad, and to whom I have, at one time, been a long distance mom to, has some challenging behavior that this book addresses. I read…

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Letter from a Long Distance Dad

February 2, 2012
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reposted with permission from the author – he became a distance parent in September 2011 when he moved back to his home country, England. His son is 4. I was looking on google for a forum for long distance parents. Over the past 3 months I have been slowly adjusting to a new life thousands…

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Adjustment Period

October 28, 2011
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I haven’t posted here in awhile.  Truth be told, I view this site (and accompanying Facebook page) as an uplifting support system, ripe with extremely valuable insight and optimistic outlooks and advice on how best to make the most of a very trying situation.  I love how all involved help to lift each other up,…

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Call Me Crazy?

October 11, 2011
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For most of the past two years I have been living 1,100 miles away from my beloved children. The decision to move far away from them did not come easily but I have had to live with it every day since then. I have tried very hard to soothe myself with the fact that they…

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