How-tos for long distance or non-custodial parents from our own experience, including quick tips.

A New Tradition

Tuesday, September 23, 2008 12:27
Posted by holly in category Day in the Life, Quick Tips

As a result of travel costs being higher on that particular weekend, I was unable to visit my daughter on her birthday this year.  I was able to go a few weeks later and bring presents but I wanted to do something extra special for her on that day.  I arranged to have balloons delivered to her school.  I did not tell her in advance about the surprise.  This was such a big hit with her that I’ve already decided to make it a birthday tradition!  

If anyone has creative ideas for celebrating birthdays, holidays, or any other special day, please let us know! 

~Holly

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Make your Child a Letter Writing Kit

Tuesday, September 16, 2008 9:59
Posted by Carrie in category How To

The end result is a binder that your child can pull out any time they want to write a letter to you – and have everything they need. This makes them have less need to rely upon the custodial parents to allow letter writing and gives them something fun to do from you.

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The High Cost of Travel

Monday, August 25, 2008 16:02
Posted by holly in category Quick Tips

Long distance parenting can be expensive. As part of my continuous quest to find affordable airfare and to make the traveling experience as pleasant as possible, I have …

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Activities for Virtual Visitation

Tuesday, February 27, 2007 9:52
Posted by Carrie in category How To, virtual visitation

So you’ve got your webcam set up and you are both seeing each other. Now what? Here are some activities that work well for internet visitation.

  • Read a book. Before my son could read, I would read to him. Eventually, he started reading to ME. When I read to him, I would hold the book up so that he could see the pictures while I read. When he read to me, if he came across a word he didn’t know, he could spell it for me or type it out and I could help him with it. This morning, I got a link from a site visitor to the International Children’s Digital Library
  • Play a game! MSN Messenger comes with a pretty decent selection of free games that you can play with your chat partner. There are some easy ones like tic tac toe, some classics like UNO and some harder ones like checkers and chess. They are built for online partner play and they are easy to figure out. They don’t require any installation other than the initial MSN messenger install.
  • Share pictures. Most messenger or chat programs come with file transfer ability. Take pictures of the things that are important in your world (the cats, your home, your work) and transfer them to the kiddo and share about them so that s/he can get to know your world outside the computer screen.
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    Effective Communication

    Tuesday, February 13, 2007 14:49
    Posted by Carrie in category Quick Tips

    When I talk to my son, I always make sure to ask him questions about his day to find out what goes on with him. I ask about school and what he did and who he played with and what he learned. He will usually tell me if he didn’t like something or had trouble with something and we will talk about it.

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